Or do a lot of women see you as a gold-digger? I mean, she literally replied to a thread about money and how to avoid people who focus on money. The dad went ballistic. The parents probably paid extra to make sure the kids could resell it later and wouldn't let them live in a "bad place". It's about the two people getting married, not random other people. So hearing this gives me hope.
No linking to specific threads in other forums.
Same with golf or tennis. I can see how it's kind of not worth it. Not okay don't stand for that. They'll always want you to pay or want you to buy things. If you earn your money on your own, you get to do whatever you damn well like with it. They were all, with the exception of my first girlfriend, extremely wealthy.